How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex

Are you married? If so, there is a lot that you and your wife probably discuss throughout the
day. Your conversation topics may cover work, family, and the bills. What about sex? Do
you and your husband talk about sex? If not, it may be something that you need to discuss
with him. One of the biggest signs that a conversation is needed is if you are currently
unhappy in the bedroom. As much as you may want to talk to your husband about making
improvements in the bedroom, you may be curious as to whether or not it is really a good
idea.

So, is it a good idea to talk to your husband about sex? Yes, it is and it is something that you
two should discuss. In fact, an open line of communication is important for all relationships to
succeed. Poor communication is often the downfall of many marriages. A lack of
communication or poor communication may have a negative effect on your whole relationship,
not just your sex life. As a wife, it is your responsibility to talk to your husband and to keep
an open line of communication. If you don’t, you may end up putting your happiness and your
marriage on the line. Do not let this happen to you.

As for the talk itself, it is important that you proceed with caution. Do not criticize your
husband or make them feel inadequate. If there is one thing that men take pride in, it is their
ability to have sex and please their partners. Unfortunately, that pleasure may not be enough
for you. Yes, you want to bring this to the attention of your husband, but do so gently.
Outright telling your husband that he isn’t fulfilling your needs is likely to create even more
problems in your relationship. Instead, gently approach the subject. You may want to start by
casually making a suggestion, such as a new position.

Next, it is important to listen to what your husband has to say. This is important as your
communication should not be one sided. When talking to your husband about intimacy say
what you have to say, but then let them speak his mind.

Why it is so important to listen to what your husband has to say concerning intimacy? For
starters, as previously stated, a happy and healthy relationship must involve communication
from other parties, not just one sided conversations. It is also important to note that their
may be a good reason why your husband may not be performing up to your standards in the
bedroom. Are they experiencing uncertainty due to an increase in age, a weight gain, or
another change in physical appearance? What about medical problems? Did you know that
some medical conditions, such as depression, and some medicines can lead to a decrease in
the want or need for intimacy?

Even with the above mentioned tips, you may still be unsure as to how you should talk to your
husband about sex. You may be feeling this way if you are worried about the consequences or
hurting his feelings. This is completely natural, but do know that you do have another option.
Consider giving a gift or performing a gesture that may lead to the topic of intimacy being
discussed. Whether you plan a spontaneous romantic dinner, purchase a romantic or
pornographic movie, or buy something sexy for your husband to wear, a gift may help to get a
new conversation started.

As previously stated, talking to your husband about sex and intimacy may be hard for you.
With that said, it is important that you do have the talk. Not only is an open line of
communication important for intimacy, but it is also important for a healthy relationship in
general. As reminder, don’t just talk to your husband about sex, but be sure to listen to what
he has to say as well.

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